Gilan Province 2

A slightly low-angle photograph of an empty park bench nestled on a small, grassy mound under a large, bare-trunked tree. The bench has a black metal frame and worn wooden slats painted in bright orange and reddish-brown. Fallen autumn leaves litter the ground around the base, and a dirt path leads off to the right. In the blurred background, other trees and an open, rolling field can be seen.
After a ride up the Lahijan Gondola lift in Gilan Province, we found this colorful bench to enjoy a moment of peace and the mountain air.
A stunning panoramic view of a mountain landscape above a thick layer of clouds. The sky is a clear, bright blue near the top, fading to a pale blue-white at the horizon. The slopes in the foreground are covered in deciduous trees, many with bare branches or muted autumn colors like deep gold and brown. A patch of the distant hillside is brightly lit by the sun, contrasting with the shadowed foreground. The vast, flat layer of white clouds fills the valley below, looking like a serene, endless sea.
After an hour of driving to Deylaman.
Passing through clouds and jungles.
A moody, wide shot of a dense, dark green forested hill rising steeply up to meet an overcast, cloudy sky. In the foreground, below the main forest line, there is a distinct band of cultivated tea bushes or low shrubs growing on the slope. The light is diffused, giving the scene a soft, slightly mysterious atmosphere.
My lunch view: The perfect scene of lush tea fields and dense jungle on Lahijan’s Devil Mountain (Sheytan Kuh).

Vank Cathedral, Isfahan

Intricately painted dome ceiling of Vank Cathedral in Isfahan, decorated with biblical scenes, golden floral patterns, and angelic faces around a central chandelier.
Intricately painted dome ceiling of Vank Cathedral in Isfahan, decorated with biblical scenes, golden floral patterns, and angelic faces around a central chandelier.
Quiet courtyard of Vank Cathedral in Isfahan with adobe-colored walls, a wooden door, a small tree, and clear blue sky overhead.
Black and white, low-angle shot of a narrow alleyway or courtyard leading toward the base of a clock tower, likely Vank Cathedral's bell tower, framed by two tall, plain, untextured walls on the left and right.

Visited the Armenian Holy Savior Cathedral, also known as Church of the Saintly Sisters, and it was awesome. So much history, beauty, and amusement.

It’s also known as Vank Cathedral, which means “monastery” or “convent” in the Armenian language.

Great experience. I’m currently in the city of Rasht, Gilan Province, north of Iran. Getting some peace of mind and rest.

Nothing is right

I’ve been feeling a lot of pressure lately, both in my personal life and at work. Nothing feels right anymore. It seems like everything is off balance.

It’s not just me. The situation in the country keeps getting worse. The economy is declining quickly, the political news is always negative, and there’s a constant tension in the air. Every day, there are more rumors about war starting again. It’s exhausting.

We’re losing hope bit by bit, and the future feels unclear and uncertain. There’s no guarantee of a safe future right now. I hardly get any sleep at night. The only thing that keeps me going is knowing I’m surrounded by the people I love.

Sometimes I feel jealous. I see my friends overseas talking about starting new jobs, attending seminars, or taking trips to cities they love. Their biggest worry is choosing between good options or pursuing their passions. I’m genuinely happy for them, but deep down, I can’t help but think this should have been our life here too.

I tell my friends here that everything will be fine, that the future is bright and we’ll get through these tough times. But even I have doubts. I’m not sure about anything, but I try to stay calm, be kind, and keep hoping and working for a better future.

I really do my best. I want to make things right. I want to contribute to projects that matter to me, be active in the communities I love, be productive, help others, and share what I can. But what can I do when I’m feeling desperate myself? It can be terrifying at times.

Just to be clear, I’m not looking for anyone’s pity. I’ve written and deleted this post many times, but I need to get things off my chest. I remembered why I kept this blog up and running: to write what I can’t say out loud. I apologize if this caught you off guard, and I’m sorry if you’ve been a victim of my poor social skills.

Funny cat meme showing a close-up of a wide-eyed orange cat with text that says, “I apologise to everyone who has been a victim of my poor social skills,” humorously expressing social awkwardness.

Carrying the weight and passing challenges

This past week has been one of the busiest I’ve had in a long time. Things changed suddenly at work and I had to take on extra responsibilities. It wasn’t part of the plan, but when someone on the team has to step away, you do what’s needed.

The truth is, it wasn’t easy. There were ups and downs every day. Some moments I felt completely drained, wondering how to keep up with everything. Other times, I felt proud of figuring things out and keeping things moving. These situations really test your patience and your ability to stay focused when everything seems to be happening at once.

On top of the extra workload, I also had to support a co-worker who was going through a difficult time. It wasn’t just about covering his tasks—it was about being there for him, guiding him through some things, and making sure he didn’t feel alone in all of this. That part mattered as much as the work itself.

There was also a moment where things got heated in a discussion, and I had to step in to bring some balance and calm the situation down. It reminded me how important it is to keep the team together, especially when stress levels are high. Sometimes, the real challenge isn’t just finishing the work—it’s keeping people grounded and working together.

One thing I noticed is how much we can adapt when we have no choice. At first, it feels impossible, but then you start to find a rhythm. You learn new things, take on tasks you’ve never done before, and somehow manage to make it work. I think that’s one of the hidden benefits of challenges—they force you to grow in ways you wouldn’t if everything stayed comfortable.

Next week is going to be the same, so the marathon isn’t over yet. It’s going to be tough, and I know I’ll be tired, but I’m trying to see it as an opportunity. These moments can either break you or make you better. I’d rather take the second option. If nothing else, this whole experience is teaching me that I can handle more than I thought I could. And that’s something valuable to take forward.

In the end, it’s about perspective. Work will always have its hard days, but if we can use them to learn, they’re not wasted. That’s what I’m holding on to right now.

Respect your elders

I’ve probably talked about this before, but it’s something I keep coming back to. When I was younger, I thought age was just a number. I figured I knew more and understood things better than a lot of older people. Turns out, I was wrong.

Now, even though I’m still pretty young, I get that older folks have a ton more experience than I do. They’ve been through things I haven’t, and they’ve learned stuff that I just can’t pick up without living more of life myself.

I used to think respect had to be earned, but now I feel like everyone deserves respect by default—unless they give me a reason not to.

Especially when it comes to my elders, I really should show respect. They most probably have wisdom and life lessons that I don’t, and even if they aren’t always perfect, I want to approach them with respect because there’s a lot I can learn from their experiences. Their choices come from real-life stuff, and listening to that can really help me out.

Back online

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It’s been weeks and I’m finally back online. Been a weird experience being this much offline but I’m finally here. Too much to catch up. Thanks a lot to any and all of you who messaged me. I’m truly grateful for your companionship.

Cheers.

The war

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It’s now the eighth day of the direct war between Iran and Israel. For nearly five days, we’ve been living under a complete internet blackout. Today, a few VPNs have started working again, giving us limited access to the outside world and letting us reconnect with family and friends abroad.

My email is still unreachable, so if you’ve tried to contact me recently, I apologize for not responding. I’m safe, and so is my family — something we’re grateful for.

To those of you who reached out in the early days: thank you. Your messages, your care, and your words meant a great deal. I’ve read them while I’ve been able to, and they’ve reminded me how lucky I am to have such awesome people in my life.

Thanks a lot and best of luck.

Logging off more

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I’m also trying to read more books instead of constantly checking the web. I used to read Wikipedia pages about topics I’m interested in, or watch some of my favorite shows on video platforms but now I try to carry a book with myself and read it. I used to read a lot but now I find less time in my schedule, mostly because of the internet. It’s time to log off more and read some good books I have in my reading list.

Oh, I’ll treat RSS feeds the same as books.